Thursday, November 11, 2010

Jealousy creeps..

02:22, 191009


It's the wee hours of the morning and I'm still wildly awake; blatantly aware that in 4 hours I have to get ready for work. But unfortunately, the mind is not settled to ease out  just yet because there's something bothering me. Not physically, but mentally. So, to say what I'm thinking is trivial, it's not. To say that this is who I am, it's agreeable.


On mind, it's the insecurity that I highly couldn't control. Couldn't control also means automatically showing your all to the people that you care so much for; be it good or bad. I'm not saying exactly what it is because I'd rather not be reminded of it directly. Instead, I'm trying to explain by way of expression for me to reassure myself of a clearer understanding and to broaden up my thoughts for support.


Here's then quandary...


"It's okay to feel jealous, as long as you can contain and channel it in a positive manner. Keep in mind that having other girls flirt with your boyfriend is normal. Just consider it as flattery on both your parts. As long as she looks but doesn't touch, what's the big deal?


Remember that trust is the foundation for any relationship, and you shouldn't let your insecurities
destroy yours. More importantly, show your man the same respect that you would want him to show you. If you can do as you please, then so can he."

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